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5 min read · March 1st 2023

Things that make you go hmmm

I will write one prompt here everyday of my thoughts or something I came across during the day that I felt added some value to my life and I hope it helps anyone who’s reading this!

Day 1

"Jealously can hide in compliments, envy can hide in support and hate can hide in love. So just because they're giving it to you, doesn't mean they have it for you. Learn to trust people's energy not their words."

Day 2

"Sometimes you need a little alone time to rebuild yourself and remember who the fuck you are, and that's okay"

Day 3

"Many stayed away, they weren't willing to fight fire with fire. But I burned proudand bright, was never ashamed of my large flames. They told me to be loved I'd have to be a wallflower, but I stayed as I was, a wildfire."

Day 4

"You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it's better to listen to what it has to say. That way, you'll never have to fear an unanticipated blow"

“And anyone who interferes with the destiny of another thing never will discover his own.”

“The dunes are changed by the wind but the dessert never changes. That’s the way it will be with our love for each other.”

“And that’s where the power of love comes in. Because when we love, we always strive to become better than we are.”

~ The Alchemist

Day 5

"I mean didn't you think you were just gonna meet someone, fall in love and that'd be it?"

~ Rachel from F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Day 6

"How come people suffer? How come people part? How come people struggle? How come people break your heart?"

~ Up & Up by Coldplay

Day 7

"Be brave enough to travel the unknown path and learn what you are capable of"

~ Rachel Wolchin

Day 8

"We have never learned the skill to grow through conflict, and therefore the conflict continued to grow!"

Day 9

"Go and love someone exactly as they are. Then, watch how they transform into the greatest truest version of themselves. When one feels seen and appreciated in their own essence, one is instantly empowered."

Day 10

"All you can do for another person is be an environment in which if they wanted to come up for air, they could."

Day 11

"The burden of one's past can be really difficult for them to carry. When someone is in the process of healing and becoming a better person, the least you can do is to not constantly remind them of who they were."

Day 12

Communicate. Even when it's uncomfortable or uneasy. So many friendships end with "we just stopped talking."

Day 13

"When someone comes to you with a problem always try to understand if they want a solution or just comfort. Do you want to vent or do you want advice?"

Day 14

"Courage is knowing it might not end well, and doing it anyway. Stupidity is the same. No wonder life is so hard."

Day 15

"We're all learning that how our life feels is much more important than how our life looks."

Day 16

"When faced with a choice, always chose the path that leads to expanding your heart, soul and mind."

Day 17

"There is more power in self awareness than in norms and rules set by the society."

Day 18

“Eternal silence of the sea I’m breathing, alive”

~ Alan Walker, Faded

Day 19

“Real glow up is when you stop waiting to turn into some perfect version of yourself and consciously cherish being who you are in the present.”

Day 20

"Not all sentences need explanation. Not all fights need closure. Words said in anger come out with only one purpose - to hurt. But if there's love it always gets better eventually and this does not need words. You just wake up one morning and you are not upset anymore."

Day 21

"Sometimes walking away has nothing to do with weakness and everything to do with strength. We walk away not because we want others to realize our value and worth, but because we finally realize our own."

Day 22

"My thoughts will echo your name, until I see you again."

Day 23

"We become so attached to a constant life that we sometimes fight change even when it's for the better."

Day 24

"Healing is weird. Some days you're okay and you're doing just fine. Other days the wounds feel fresh. They say time is the greatest healer. You just gotta keep going and know that when all is said and done, you are going to be okay and that's all that matters."

Day 25

Got my hand on your heart now, I can feel it race If I leave then you say you can never love again Wanna give you it all but can’t promise that I’ll stay And that’s the risk you take!

~ Selena Gomez, Calm Down

Day 26

"I don't think there is anything like a good or bad person. There are good experiences and bad experiences with a person. Someone you find bad someone else might find good. You cannot label someone as bad just because of what they did to you. Deem them as safe or unsafe. Aligned or misaligned. Don't be around people you feel the need of protecting yourself from!"

Day 27

"It's only heavy because you are deciding over and over to carry it. You do not have to ignore or erase the past, you just have to whole heartedly embrace the present and move on."

Day 28

"I'm not everything I want to be, but I'm more than I was, and I'm still learning."

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